How My Blog Has Developed Over Time

I realized the other day that I have been blogging for 7 years as of December of this year, 2021.   It really doesn’t seem as though it has been that long.  As the saying goes, where has the time gone?   The funny part about blogging , at least my blog, is that it began with me doing one thing and then within a year or so of that, morphed into something else. I started out reviewing products for some sellers that I was working with directly and as the years went by, it has become a blog about me raising my grandchildren and all things related to parenting and/or grandparenting.  I tend to do a lot of giveaways on my blog, simple because I enjoy giving out free stuff to my followers!   

I began my blog as a way to vent to others about raising my grandchildren and share the experiences that we have been through while having the girls with us.  I found out along the way, that there are tens of thousands of grandparents out there raising their grandchildren. The girls have lived with my husband and I for the past 6 or 7 years, give or take a year.  They came to live with us when they were just 7 & 8 years old.  They’re now in those amazing teenage years, ages 14 & 15. I might be using that word “amazing” with a slightly sarcastic undertone.   I will just say, that It is really different raising teenagers when you’re in your late 50’s and 60’s than it was when we were in our 30’s!

I am starting to bring my blog back to sharing about my personal experience with different brands and how much I enjoyed using their products and/or reviewing a specific product.  I don’t do this often, but when I do , you can bet it is something I have been excited about using.

I can remember when I first started blogging thinking to myself, does anybody really want to hear what I have to say?   I think that all beginning bloggers go through that thought process.  I had absolutely zero clue how to grow my blog or to be certain that I had people actually reading what I was writing!   I guess if I am completely honest, I still wonder if people are reading my posts.  I know they are, because I have comments on different posts, so at some point what I write must be resonating with somebody.   

As a blogger, you are always thinking of ways to grow your blog.   Several years back I stumbled upon a website that has assisted me in not only growing my blog’s footprint, but it has assisted me in working closely with new brands.  Brands that are looking for people such as myself to help them gain some exposure.  The name of the website I am referring to is Intellifluence.    I love that by working with this site, I am also able to share a wide range  of topics that I might not have otherwise thought to write about on my blog.  It is always up to me as to what I choose to share on the blog via their site, so I am certain to make sure it is a subject that would interest the type of people that follow my blog.  (If you are a blogger, I strongly encourage you to go check them out)

When I started using sites such as Intellifluence I really noticed an upswing of followers and growth on my blog.  Now don’t get me wrong, I don’t think I am a mega influencer like Lauren Mayhew or anything crazy like that.  If you don’t know who that is, let me give you a couple hints.   She is a singer, actor and influencer and she has incredible talent!    Yet I know that I have value to offer to brands that will assist them in growing their businesses.   Anybody that is looking to work with a blogger or influencer should always have some basic knowledge about how an influencer or blogger will benefit their brand.  It doesn’t matter if that blogger has a small reach or if they have a large reach and following.   There is a ton of information out there if you’re willing to put in the time to research how you can grow your blog and what you should and should not do.   One of the articles that I read and gained a bunch of insight and knowledge through is, Don’t take Shortcuts”.  

I love blogging and it has been a great way for me to share what our experiences have been in raising grandchildren , after we basically were done raising our own children.  Although, if you look back at my first post I wrote  on this blog, our youngest son was still at home when the girls came to live with us.   Currently, it is just the 2 teenagers, my husband, myself and our 1 yr old Boston Terrier  in the house.  If you keep your eyes on the blog, I am sure you will hear about her sooner or later.

I hope that you have gained some insight as to how my blog came to life , what the growth pattern has been like and how the blog itself has changed and morphed  over time.   

As always, I would love to hear from you in the comments below!!  Let me know what you would like to hear more about in my next blog post!!


Games and the Family Dynamic

Recently I have realized how much games in general have a huge part in our day to day lives.  I came to this conclusion the other day as I looked around the room and both of my teenage granddaughters, my husband and myself all had a phone in our hands.  When I asked them what they were doing on their phones they each answered individually that they were playing a game.   (side note, I had also been playing a game on my phone prior to looking up at everybody else)

I have 2 teenagers in my home (my granddaughters I am raising) and anybody that has teenagers in their lives knows how hard it can be to get them to communicate with you. When I noticed my teenagers playing their games on their phones, all I could think was how hard it is to get the girls to communicate with me.  When I asked them about the games they were playing  it gave me a way to get them to talk to me.  Anybody that has teenagers will appreciate that it can be difficult to find a way  “into” your kids’ lives.  

If I think back to when my oldest was young, we played games like Tetris, Sims, Zelda, Mario Brothers etc.   Sometimes we played on a gaming system and other times we played on the family computer.  It didn’t matter how we accessed those games, it just mattered that we were playing them together! My favorite was Zelda and let me tell you, I played that game for hours and hours!

My family plays games now just like everybody else in the country on our phones, the laptop or a gaming system.   To be honest, in my house for the most part everybody uses their phones.  Yet no matter what device we use, games are still a way to get your kids to communicate with you.   My 14 yr old granddaughter likes to play this word finding game called Word Collect on my phone with me.  I love it because it is a way to get her to spend time with me.  Let’s be honest, anybody that has teenagers in their lives knows how hard it is to get them to allow you into their world.

I have a game that I play on my phone that is a seek and find game.  It is called Seekers Notes; Hidden Mystery.  I have been playing this game for at least 5 years.  I am absolutely addicted to it.  The challenges reset every morning at 3 am and I find myself anxious to get on the game and see what the new challenge is as soon as it resets.  The reason it keeps my interest is that the game evolves and changes weekly with new challenges and worlds that open up in it.  

My husband plays a shoot and kill kind of game that he plays with a group of people from around the world.  His “commander” is in Thailand and they have become good friends over the last couple years.   They have a chat feature and if one of the guys doesn’t show up to participate in one of the “wars” that they have, one of the other members will check up on them.   They have had one that passed away and others that have had deaths in the family, gotten sick etc.   These guys have become really good friends.   

It reminds me of my son and the XBox games he would play and still does when he has the time.  He has a group of guys he plays with that have been together for years, since my son was a teenager.   I couldn’t tell you the names of the games he plays now as he is an adult and lives on his own.  Yet as a teenager he played popular games such as Call of Duty, Grand Theft Auto, Minecraft, etc.  

Both of the son in laws still play XBox games and they are grown men with kids of their own.  In fact, the oldest one has a slight obsession with all gaming devices and buying and collecting all games.  He gets them at yard sales, Ebay, the local flea market  , Facebook marketplace and basically anyplace he can get them.

I have recently started playing basic Solitaire and Tetris, both are games that I have played for more years than I care to talk about.    I found Tetris on my laptop through a website online called Plays.org that has a ton of games and it has my heart racing again trying to get those blocks turned in the correct position before they drop too fast.  Don’t laugh, you know you have been there if you have ever played Tetris before!  Solitaire is one that I find myself playing when I need just a mind numbing moment to relax from what the day has brought me.

 As a family, we like to play board games , especially during the holidays.  Playing Poker and Gin Rummy has been a family favorite for as long as I can remember.   It gives us a way to get together and spend time with each other.  I am now teaching my toddler grandchildren to play games like Candy Land, Chutes and Ladders and Jenga.  Don’t get me wrong, I have to convince them to put the electronics down in order to teach them the basics of the simpler games. They are thrilled and enthused by anything electronic so I do have one tablet at Nana and Papa’s house that they can earn time to play on.

Having said all that, it makes me realize that games have always been a way to form a community or bond with others. It doesn’t matter if you are trying to bond with your teenagers , children or just in a friend group. Games are a great way to accomplish that goal. As I have sat and thought about this I realize that it doesn’t really matter if it is a hands on physical game you sit around a table and play with people or if it is digitally on your phone. You can still develop that bond or friendship with others that you are playing the game with. I am curious, do you have children/grandchildren in the home and are looking for ways to connect with them? Have you tried different games to get them to just sit and play with you? As I said earlier, it is a great way to connect with the kids in your life! I would like to encourage you to try games to get your family to connect with each other! I would love to hear from you in the comments below what you use to get your family to connect with each other! As I said earlier, it is a great way to connect with the kids in your life! I would like to encourage you to try games to get your family to connect with each other!


Road Trip Activities for Kids of All Ages!

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I am very blessed to have 3 wonderful adult children and 12 grandchildren.  Over the years, we have done a ton of road trips with our own children and multiple road trips with 7 of our grandchildren.  As a result, we have picked up a few “tricks of the trade” for traveling with kids of all ages.

We recently took a road trip with 5 of the grandchildren and it made me think about how many things we did during that long trip to keep them all busy. Well, to be honest, what my daughter and I both did to keep them busy. I thought what a great thing to share with other busy parents that might need some pointers on how to keep their kids of all ages busy while driving to visit family for the holidays or during vacations!

This article will be broken up into a couple of age groups.   Teenagers/school aged kids, and toddlers.   It is easy to just give our kids/grandkids an electronic , start the car and go. However, if you are making a long road trip, the electronic device only works for so long. So I have listed some things we have done over the years with our own kids and I hope that you find something here that is helpful to you on your next long road trip with your kids, no matter what their ages are!

TEENAGERS / SCHOOL AGED KIDS

  • TECHNOLOGY: The obvious one is going to be technology.  We usually allow our granddaughters (14 yrs & 15 yrs) to have their phones for part of the trip.   However we do have them put their phones away every hour or two and we play what they call the “old fashioned” games.   You know the ones we played as kids before everybody had a cellphone!

  • ABC GAME:   One person starts with the letter A, they have to find a word outside of the car that starts with the letter A.  (on a billboard, restaurant sign, license plate, etc)  Then it goes to the next person with the letter B.  Game goes on and on until you reach the end of the alphabet.   Nobody wants to be the one that lands on the letters Q and Z!!  

  • EYE SPY GAME:   Eye spy with my little eye.  Most people will know this one.  Somebody says I spy with my little eye, something green.   Everybody else has to guess what the object is.  (this game is usually for when you are sitting still or everything in the car)

  • NEVER HAVE I EVER GAME:  One person says, “Never have I ever ____”  Ex:  Never have I ever been to Texas.   The other people guess if that is true or not.  Then it goes to the next person.   Whoever has the most correct guesses wins.

  • LICENSE PLATE GAME:   You as the adult choose a state that everybody will search for.  Then everybody starts “collecting” how many license plates they see with that state  on them.  We usually give a time frame.   In 30 minutes, how many can you find?  Whoever has the most wins.

  • TICK TAC TOE or HANGMAN:   We usually bring a small whiteboard that you can pick up at the dollar store.  Then at some point during the trip either the kids play these games  with each other, passing the board back and forth or we will play with them.

BABIES / TODDLERS

  • QUIET GAME: Everybody has to be quiet. The goal is to see who can be quiet the longest. (the winner gets a “special” prize that mom or dad have packed….something small from the Dollar tree you picked out)

  • MAGNET GAME: Put a bunch of letter magnets in a tin box (old lunch boxes work great for this!) Give your toddlers a word to spell. Tell them we are spelling the word “DAD” So they need to find the letter D. Once they find it , have them put on the top of the tin box… have them find the next letter A. etc. Might need some assistance , depending on ages…but is a great game to play with a sibling
  • WIPE OFF BOOK: This takes a little planning. Get a binder and some clear sheet protectors. Print out some pages with Letters or Numbers that the kids will trace. Put those pages in the clear sheet protectors , tape the top of it (so the pages don’t slide out). Give the kids an Expo Marker and let them trace the letters. They can do this over and over. You just wipe off the page when they are done so they can do it over and over again.

  • TABLET TIME: Load their favorite movie onto a tablet and allow them to watch it for short periods of time. That way it is special and they will look forward to getting to use it. It is easy to use this the whole trip, but I have found that if you stimulate their brains with some of the other things listed, the tablet can be used to get them to wind down and maybe, just maybe they will take a nap during the road trip.

  • LITTLE PRIZES: Pack small gifts for each child to open every hour of your trip. As long as they have behaved, they will get a small prize. Example: things from Dollar Tree, coloring book, stuffed animal, etc

  • SPECIAL SNACKS: Pack special snacks in the half snack zip lock bags. Something that the kids don’t normally get, so it seems special to them.

I would LOVE to hear your feedback! Is there something special that you do on road trips that you can share with us? I am always looking for more input when it comes to keeping the grandkids happy and content during one of our family vacations!! Please comment below and let me know your input!


UPDATE: Grandparents Raising Grandchildren

Natalie, 13 yrs old & Angela, 14 yrs old

It has been months since I wrote a heartfelt blog post.  I find myself feeling all kinds of crazy emotions lately, so I figured now was a great time to start getting back to what I originally created this blog around. I am a grandparent raising grandchildren.   The crazy part of that statement is that I am only one of 2.7 million grandparents that are currently raising grandchildren!

Just to give a quick update.  I am married to an incredible husband and we are getting ready to celebrate 25 years of marriage in a couple of months.  About 6 years ago our 2 oldest granddaughters came to live with us.  Our oldest daughter, their mom, has addiction issues in addition to some mental health things going on.  She has always been a great mom and so when she felt herself making some bad choices and running from some things that had happened in her adult life, she brought the girls to her dad and I.  I have always respected her for that choice, as she never drug her kids through the ugliness.

I always thought it would be a temporary situation, yet here we are 6 years later.  I believe at this point even though mom is working hard on making better choices, that the girls will live with us until at least they graduate.   They are 7th and 9th grade at this point, so it just makes sense to have them stay here with their Papa and I.

It has been a long time since I gave a full picture of how we became a part of that 2.7 million 2 grandparents.  You can find my original post written in January 2016 below.  

For this post, I want to give a brief update. Mom hit rock bottom about a year after the oldest 2 came to live with my husband and myself.  She was put on probation and did great for a period  of time.  She came to live with her dad, myself and the 2 girls.  She did extremely well for about 3 ½ years.   During that time her birth control failed and we ended up with a set of twin grandbabies, Kenneth and Karra!   They are amazing and our daughter stayed sober, working and on her mental health meds for a long time.  Yet, as it happens with addictions it reared its ugly head when the twins were about 2 and mom ended up with a violation on her original charge.   Over the next year or so, she caught 2 more charges and ended up going to jail. The twins dad has been doing an amazing job raising them and has every intention of helping mom when she is released.   As of about a week ago, she has been in jail for a year.  That is one full year of missed birthdays, missed holidays, in addition to all the other first she missed..her oldest daughter’s first day of high school, the twins learning to potty  etc.    I am proud of how she has changed and worked on improving herself since she has been in jail and we as a family are praying for the day she is released on Parole and is able to start being a healthy mom again.  

Twins
3 yrs old, Kenneth & Karra

Her oldest girls that live with us have really had a hard time this past year.   They are both teenagers now and have had a ton of acting out behaviors.  They are angry , sad and at times indifferent to their mom.   Of course, they have been in counseling for years but counseling only does so much.   

When the girls first came to live with us, our youngest son was 15. He had to share his parent time with his nieces and for the most part did a great job of being an uncle who had to live in the same home with them. Our other daughter, has also had to do some adjustments through all of this. She has 3 of our precious grandbabies and I have no doubt that she has felt slighted at times from us as her mom and dad, even though her dad and I have worked hard to prevent those feelings. We are very blessed that she lives on our property so we see our grandbabies from her several times a day on a regular basis. Over the years, I feel that both of our other children have worked hard to be there for the 2 oldest granddaughters and pour into their lives.

I pray constantly for both the big girls that live with us, the twins who are now 3 ½ years old and of course our daughter!  I love all my grandchildren (we have a total of 12) and I have to admit it is hard that with my 2 oldest, I have to be the “parent” and we don’t get much of the “grandparenting” privilege’s with them. Yet, if I had it to do all over again, I would make the same choices and have the girls here with us.

Angela, Natalie, Mom, Karra and Kenneth

I have decided for a variety of reasons to homeschool the 13 year old. My husband and I felt it was best to have her at home to be certain that we were her strongest influences in her life, instead of some friend choices she was making. I am really praying that she will have matured enough we can send her back to public school next year, but only time will tell. The 14 yr old started high school this year and has had some difficulty adjusting to high school. She has showed a lot of maturity in the past couple months, so I am confident that she will be excelling by the end of the year!

So that is my current update. I wonder how many of my followers are grandparents raising grandchildren? Or maybe you know families who are? I would love to hear from you in the comments section!!


Grandparent Types

I wonder how many types of grandparents are out there? What category do you fit into?

I figured I’d take a few minutes today and write about some of the different types of grandparents, my husband and I are.   I really think we’re run the full gamut of grandparent types. We are “parents” again to our oldest 2 granddaughters, we’re “weekend grandparents”  to the twins, “full time get to see them every day” grandparents to our middle daughter’s children, and across the country “don’t really know us” grandparents to husbands grandchildren from 1st marriage.   

As I sit here tonight,  watching my twin 2 year old grand babies…I can’t help but think to myself,  I didn’t envision grand-parenting to be like this.  

Karra, age 2 **** Kenneth, age 2

You see,  I’m not watching the twins because I get to do the traditional babysitting on weekends,  like normal grandparents. I’ve got them tonight because their mom is in jail and their dad is sick.   He needed some extra help tonight and I’m sooo thankful he called and asked me!! As they both have acted out tonight,  I can’t help but think this behavior because mom isn’t here? This is moms 2nd time in jail in less than 6 months. I find myself sitting and crying because I know they don’t understand.    They usually have their older sisters here, yet tonight that wasn’t the case. It’s been a rough night with just Nana and Papa watching the twins… but again, I’m happy dad knows to call on us when things get tough.

The twins don’t live with Papa &  I. However, their older sisters have lived with us for about the last 5 or 6 years.  The 13 year old is at a friend’s house tonight, while the 12 year old is skating.

I will admit I’m a little jealous of those grandparents that get to spoil the grandkids,  then send them home to their parents. I don’t get that experience with my 2 oldest grandchildren.    I pray as time goes on that I will continue to have that kind of relationship with the younger grand-kids. 

 Thirteen years ago,  when we first became grandparents,  neither my husband nor I ever envisioned that we’d be raising that granddaughter.   Or her sister that was born 1 year and 18 days later. My husband and I and their mom have all come to realize that the best place for these girls is right here in our home.  Of course, we continue to pray that they have a relationship with their mom. At this point, I don’t know what that’s going to look like long term, so we will just pray and put that in God’s hands. 

As the twins are settling in and their 12 year old sister comes home to cuddle with them, my house starts to quiet down again.  I find myself wondering, how many other grandparents are in our position? Raising some of their grand-kids, while trying to balance being a “normal” grandparent to the rest of their grandchildren.?    

I would love to hear from you if you are a grandparent raising a grandchild or grandchildren?   Do you have the same emotional struggles?  
Genesis, age 2 *** Abel, age 2 months *** Serenity, age 3
These are our middle daughters babies

How to Plan a Stress-Free Vacation for Kids and Adults Alike

Are you planning a summer trip for your family? You’re definitely not alone, but you could be far less stressed than other parents and children who are hitting the road. Check out these family-friendly travel tips to keep kids having fun and adults from feeling anxious.

Rent an Entire Vacation Home Rather Than a Hotel Room

No matter how much your family adores one another, being stuck in a tiny hotel room for too long can take the relaxation right out of your vacation. A better option for families looking to spread out is a vacation home rental, which is usually cheaper than that single hotel room. These days, rental sites help you zero in on the right amenities and space you need to fit your family size and budget. Plus, you can always find rentals near favorite attractions and activities. In bustling Nashville, for example, Turnkey notes you can choose a great rental from a variety of unique neighborhoods, whether you want to be near The Gulch, closer to Music Row or want something quieter with proximity to the historic districts.

Aside from being more spacious and affordable for families, vacation homes also allow you to save your money and waistline by cooking more meals on your trip. Worried that cooking on vacation will stress you out? Try prepping some bulk meals before you go so you have more time to just chill.

Bring Electronics But Limit Your Kids’ Usage

Whether you plan on piling your family into the car for a family road trip or taking an airplane to far-off locales, tablets and cell phones can be lifesavers for parents. You can let your children use your tablet or find a more kid-friendly version for little ones, but be sure to load them with games and videos that will keep them busy. Try keeping things educational with fun reading apps or an engaging app to boost their math skills. Just be sure to set clear expectations around screen time while you are on vacation. While many studies suggest limiting screen time based on age, you should also enforce limits that will keep your kids engaged with activities during your trip.

Have Your Kids Help Plan Some Vacation Activities

If you want your kids to be excited for your big adventure together, why not let them help plan some of your itinerary? Aside from giving them have a vested interest in your family vacation, asking for input from your children can actually help you narrow down your activity list and reduce planning time. For younger children, give them a few choices to pick from; if you have teens, give them the chance to research possibilities at your chosen destination. Putting together an itinerary can be a great way to prevent meltdowns and mismanaged time when traveling as a family, but you also need to remember to include a little down time as well. Make room in your schedule so everyone has a chance to relax the way they want.

Avoid Travel Nightmares With Some Travel Safety Steps

While reducing stress is always a top priority for parents planning a family vacation, keeping kids safe is even more important. With all the hustle and bustle of planning and preparing, this can be easy to forget this. Take the time to go over a few safety tips with your kids. Clearly explain the rules and dangers around your travel plans. For example, if you will be visiting a zoo, calmly discuss safe animal interactions. It’s also important for you to keep a close eye on your children while on vacation, especially smaller children who can easily wander and get lost. Finally, the most important step you can take to ensure your family’s safety is to pick the right destination. Family-friendly spots tend to be much safer for children of all ages, and much less likely to cause you additional stress.

Family trips are a great way to make lasting memories for your children. To keep those memories happy, use the tips above. More than anything though, be sure to have fun!

Another wonderful article from a Guest Writer:

Denise Long of GrandMothering

denise@grandmothering.info


Tips For Camping: What To Pack And What To Leave At Home


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Going on a camping retreat can be a great way to bond with your family and get some time to yourself, away from the stresses of everyday life. It can be a chance to reconnect with one another and with nature, especially if you live in a city or away from open land. However, there are lots of things to consider when packing and safety are concerned, especially if you’re planning on taking part in some activities while you’re away. Fishing, hiking, exploring, rock climbing, and swimming are just a few of the things you might do during your trip, and they can all be dangerous if you’re not properly prepared.

Make a packing list and go over it several times with each of your family members before the trip to ensure everyone has what they need. Think about essentials and preparedness, such as things you’ll want to have in the event of an injury, but also think about what you need to leave at home. If you have children, it’s easy to overpack, but most camping trips dictate that you try to bring as little as possible simply because there’s never enough room for everything.

Here are a few tips on how to pack for your camping trip and keep it simple.

Get organized

Packing is a big job if you have a family, so start with one person and go down the line rather than packing several people simultaneously. Make a list for each individual and finish everything on the list before moving on. Everyone will need weather-appropriate clothing and accessories, so be sure to check the forecasts for where you’ll be camping. Very hot days can lead to very cool nights in some spots, so pack light-colored, cotton clothing that can be layered.

Aside from clothing, think about what everyone will need on the trip. Bathing suits, hoodies or windbreakers, sturdy hiking shoes, several pairs of clean cotton socks, and water shoes are a good start. It might be helpful to make sure everyone has their own canteen or water bottle, as well. You’ll likely also want to bring a camera to photograph your adventures (check out these kid-friendly digital cameras).

Another thing that I encourage you to bring is a deck of cards,   Yes, something that basic and simple is a wonderful tool for bringing everybody together and spending some great quality time.  A deck of cards is universal for all ages, both adults and children. Another great thing to have is a board game available, but that is dependant on if you are tent camping or camper camping.   With a tent, you want to pack things that are easy to store. Ina camper, you can pack a board game away in a cupboard easily. With today’s technology at our fingertips, it is easy to forget something so simple and fun.

Think safety

Safety gear for the water is essential if you’re going to be near a lake or pond or if you have a boat. Water shoes with a soft shell are great for walking around on rocky lake bottoms and can prevent cuts on feet. Life vests are necessary, as well. Be sure to tell your children to avoid getting lake or pond water in their mouths and to be careful about swimming underwater, as sometimes the water in these areas can carry bacteria.

Bring along a large first aid kit that has everything from aspirin to burn bandages, and make sure it’s well stocked. Buy tents and sleeping bags that are fire retardant. If you have a large group, bring along some walkie-talkies or other means of communication in case someone wanders away. However, it’s a good idea to talk to everyone about staying together, especially on trails and in the forest.

Talk to your group about staying safe around fire, as well. Only adults should handle matches or lighters, and grills should be in properly ventilated areas on sturdy ground. Never leave a grill or fire unattended, and make sure they are completely put out before you go to bed or leave.
There are so many things to think about where safety is concerned that you might forget to have fun! Remember that being prepared and making sure your family has all the right tools to stay safe will take a load off your shoulders and allow you to keep the trip light and relaxing.


5 Checklists for Babyproofing Your House

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Guest Post by: Paige Mitchell

Caretakers have the ultimate responsibility of keeping children safe at home. Whether you’re a parent, grandparent, or babysitter, baby- or childproofing your home is an absolute must. Sadly, 2,000 children are injured at home every year. To protect our favorite kiddos, we must take precaution and review our surroundings with the closest attention to detail. To do so, here’s a childproofing checklist for every room in the house.

Bedroom

To prevent crib-related injury and suffocation, here are some do’s and don’ts to remember when babyproofing the bedroom.

  • Don’t use a modified or broken crib or one that’s more than 10 years old.
  • Don’t use a crib with wide slats or drop-down sides.
  • Do use a crib with an adjustable mattress.
  • Do remove all pillows, stuffed animals, and other items from the crib that could lead to suffocation.
  • Do install window guards to keep mobile children safely inside.
  • Do keep corded blinds or baby monitors out of reach from curious children.

Family room

Toddlers use anything and everything in sight for support as they learn to crawl and hold themselves up. Small but mighty, these kids can actually pull furniture on top of themselves. Here’s a quick checklist for securing the living room:

  • Mount televisions to the wall instead of using a TV stand.
  • Secure shelving, like bookcases, to the wall.
  • Keep remote controls away from kids who don’t know better than to bite a loose battery.
  • Add soft bumpers to the sharp edges of tables.
  • Guard the fireplace with a baby gate.
  • Block access to staircases with a safety gate.
  • Cover all unused electrical outlets.

Kitchen

From choking hazards to sharp objects, the kitchen is perhaps the most dangerous room of the house. Caretakers should try their very best to keep kids out when an adult isn’t present, and lock the following to keep kids safe in the kitchen:

  • Lock cabinets containing heavy dishes, pots, and pans.
  • Lock drawers containing sharp objects, like knives.
  • Keep countertop appliances out of reach from toddlers on their tippy toes.
  • Latch the refrigerator, which holds some yummy but mostly dangerous foods for infants.
  • Lock the oven and remove the knobs, if you can, when the stove isn’t in use.

Bathroom

Kids in training might take the initiative to try going potty on their own. Soon, an open toilet is a kiddie pool and your bathroom is soaked. Here’s how to babyproof the bathroom:

  • Lay anti-slip bath mats down, especially on hard tile.
  • Line the inside of the tub with a gripped liner to minimize the chances of slipping and falling to or from the tub.
  • Place a rubber guard over the faucet.
  • Keep all soaps and cleaning supplies out of reach.
  • Hire a plumber to install a temperature-controlling device to faucets. Note: if your hot water heater is malfunctioning, call your home warranty company to get it repaired right away.

Yard

The yard is practically the wilderness to a child. Plants, bugs, and critters are interesting but can be threatening in some form or fashion. Here are some final do’s and don’ts to babyproof the backyard:

  • Don’t use toxic plants in your garden.
  • Don’t spray your lawn with harsh pesticides or fertilizers.
  • Do consider installing a fence.
  • Do invest in a secure pool cover.

Do teach children not to approach animals without help from an adult.