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It has been months since I gave an update on raising our 2 oldest granddaughters.
I will start with a quick recap of how we got to this point in life. About 8 years ago, our oldest daughter started her fight with addiction and she brought her girls to live with their Papa and I. If you would like to know the beginning of that story, I have put a link to that blog post here
It seems as though my home is full of hormones and teenage drama. I love having the girls here, but wow! Teenage girls can really test your patience!
I am proud to say that their mom is out of jail now and is doing extremely well! She is a stay at home mom with her 5 year old twins, who have just started kindergarten. (I can’t believe they are old enough to be in school!) I can’t help but think back to when the big girls began kindergarten as I watch the twins go through this new stage in life. (the 2 that we are raising)
First let me brag on the big girl’s mom, my oldest daughter. She has fought through some awful choices due to her mental health issues and addiction over the years. All of that landed her in jail a couple of short times and then this last time she was there for almost 2 years. It was extremely hard on the big girls. They were mad at her and yet still wanted her to be their mom full time. When she was released she went to live with the twins’ dad. It was different this time though. She had truly made a decision when she came home to NEVER go back to that lifestyle and the twin’s dad was very supportive of her. She chose to be a stay at home mom for several reasons at that point. You see, as a felon, her choices for employment are very limited. She was basically forced to work around other felons, ie: other addicts. ( I could write a whole other blog post on that subject alone and I very well may do that at a later date.)
The girl’s mom has been home now for 15 months and has stayed clean and sober. I am so happy to say that she is now engaged to the twin’s dad! That wonderful event happened this past summer. She has spent the last year and half rebuilding her relationship with the big girls. They go to their mom’s house at least 2 to 3 times a week and spend time with her , their twin siblings and of course mom’s fiance’. It has been a slow process this past year or so, but they are all in a healthy space now.
Teenage years are the time in your life when you are figuring out how to be a young adult and take on the responsibilities of an adult, while still living at home and having the safety of your parents protection in case you make dumb choices. The big girls are not only dealing with normal teenage thoughts and feelings, but they also are working through the abandonment issues that come when you have a parent that has fought with addiction issues. I know that I have read a lot about addiction and the effects it has on families. I would love to hear some input from any readers/followers that have dealt with addiction themselves or within the family unit!
I often wonder if Papa and I will continue to raise them until they are 18 or if they will be able to go live with their mom full time again. We have always prayed that would be the end result. We are currently praying over what the next step is for the girls and their mom. My daughter and I have a great relationship now so I know that she also wants what is best for them in the long run.
Thank you for taking the time to read an update on raising our granddaughters. Feel free to give any feedback in the comments section , I love hearing from my followers!!
If your child’s education requires a little more attention than they are getting at school, you’ll be glad to learn that you can make a significant difference from the comfort of your own home. Maybe your child is facing challenges in a specific subject, or perhaps you want to deepen and broaden their knowledge. Either way, you’ll benefit from these at-home educational tips from Frog Reviews and Ramblings!
Get a Degree
Perhaps the most effective way of deepening your understanding of improving your child’s learning is to pursue a college degree in education. These days, accredited online universities offer flexible course schedules, which means that you could study while juggling all of your other responsibilities. Growing your own skills and knowledge could lead to more opportunities for your child to grow and succeed in their academic endeavors.
Research Learning Games
Most kids tend to learn well when they are playing games. Consider active games that keep your child moving and contain an educational element. For example, preschool-aged kids could learn from a scavenger hunt that requires them to find various colors, numbers, shapes, and other items. You could adjust this activity to cover topics like art, history, anatomy, and biology for older kids.
Hold a Music Session
Playing music has a way of spurring on the imagination, and it also comes with a plethora of cognitive benefits for children. Consider carving out a space in your home for daily music sessions where you play a song and help your child learn the part on their ukelele, guitar, or keyboard. Another way to help your child develop an interest in music is to play trivia games or make your own instruments with household items.
Arrange Science Activities
Science is an essential part of any education, so coming up with at-home science experiments is one of the best ways you can help your child succeed. You can find tons of DIY activities for preschoolers and elementary-aged kids, and you could also find some for older children. Another option is to look online for kits that can be delivered straight to your door; these kits will provide all the items you need for an in-depth lesson!
Start a Garden
Perhaps one of the most benefit-rich activities you can do with your child is planting a garden together. Starting and maintaining a garden can deepen your child’s knowledge of nutrition, science, and nature, not to mention the all-important life lesson of patience! Doing gardening tasks is also a great way to spend time together in your otherwise busy life. Plus, keeping a garden in your backyard is a great way to provide your family with vegetables and fruits, which will go a long way in keeping your diets nutritious.
Make a Website
One of the most wide-open career fields today is web development and design. Chances are you have heard of coding classes and training programs for young children, and you can help your child create a website from home with minimal knowledge.
As your child grows older, you can keep going back to the site they created and watch them handle more and more of the tasks involved! Consider making a site with your child and teaching them to take pictures, start a blog (even if they cannot write yet), and learn the ins and outs of what makes a website run smoothly.
Look to Professionals
You don’t have to do all of your at-home education yourself. We have highly qualified instructors who provide private tutoring, pod learning, SAT and ACT prep, college admission services, and more! Look to education professionals to help you in your endeavor.
If your child is struggling in a particular subject or you want to bolster their academic efforts, consider the tips above for supplementing their learning at home. Keep researching other activities and ideas you can implement because there are a lot of them out there! In no time, you and your child will be realizing the benefits of putting in a little extra effort! Frog Reviews and Ramblings gives some insight on being a grandparent raising grandchildren, as well as product reviews. If you have any questions, don’t hesitate to ask!
As we start to come to the end of Summer and enter into Fall, I figured it would be fun to make a list of my favorite parts of Fall. I did this several years back and had fun writing about it.
Sitting on our back deck by the firepit:
Roasting marshmallows with the grandkids. I love hanging out with the grandkids all year round, but there’s something special about roasting marshmallows with them!
Watching the leaves turn colors:
I lived on the West Coast most of my life and moved to middle Tennessee 22 years ago. One of my favorite parts of living in this part of the country is watching the leaves turn from massive greenery to a huge variety of oranges, reds, yellows and browns. It is breathtaking the natural beauty that happens in the fall in this part of the country!
Cooler Weather:
I am a lover of all seasons. Yet there is something special about that time of year when the leaves are falling and the evenings cool down. When we can sit outside and not be eaten up by mosquitoes. That time of year when you grab a light sweater to sit on the porch swing.
Decorating with fun Fall Décor:
It is so much fun to pull out all my pumpkins, fall scented candles, scarecrows, etc. to decorate inside the house. I do a little bit outside, but I have the most fun inside. I often wonder am I the only one who looks forward to pulling all this out? My craving for this usually starts about the end of August,
The Thankful Book:
We have a family journal that I pull out every year on November 1st. We have been doing this for about 15 years. Every day, each member of the family writes in the journal stating what they are thankful for. It is so fun to look back over the years and see what the kids and grandkids have written in these books. We are actually on our 2nd book. My prayer is that one day my kids each get one of the books when I am gone and can hang onto a piece of their childhood.
Apple Picking:
This year I have found a local farm where we can go pick some apples. I have decided we are going to start a new tradition and go apple picking at least one time during the season. My favorite apples are Honeycrisp. The farm that I have found has a ton of varieties available! I am so excited to take the grandkids!
Pumpkin Patch:
There is a local pumpkin patch near us that we like to take the kids to. It is a ton of fun for the kids and adults alike. They have a hay ride that you go on to pick out your pumpkin in addition to a ton of other fun activities for the kids. Things like: ziplines, tire e more!!
Sweaters:
There is nothing better than an overly large, soft comfy sweater! I love everything about them. The soft feel of them on your skin, the fact that they basically compliment any outfit and hide all those extra love handles that we as women, are always trying to disguise.
Boots:
Oh my goodness I tend to get excited when I get to pull out my boots. Once flip flop/sandal weather is over, you will always see me in a pair of boots. I have tall slouchy ones, small barely above the ankle fur lined boots, boots I wear in snow/rain. I love the fact that you can wear them with pants, leggings, dresses, just about any outfit will look good with the right boots. You just can’t go wrong with a pair of good fitting boots.
Scents and Colors:
When I think of fall, there are so many scents that come to mind. In my home, you will almost always encounter Fall scented candles burning. Some of our favorite scents are warm apple, pumpkin, maple flavoring and cranberry/orange. I also love the bold , warm colors that you will see in clothing at this time of year. When I go to grab a shirt in the Fall , some of my favorite tops will have a dark wine color or a deep mustard color. I am not big on the deep green that you see at this time of year, but I do love a good deep gray pant or leggings!
Fall is one of my favorite times of the year, so I could go on and on with this list. Since that isn’t practical, I will end it with this question.
What is your favorite part of Fall? Please share with me below in the comments!
Be sure to share this article with your friends to see what their favorite parts of Fall are!!!
It isn’t only adults who feel stress. Kids also have problems, experience uncertainty, and worry about the future. Psychological professionals have pointed out a notable rise in children visiting emergency rooms due to mental health concerns. Thankfully, parents can help dependents suffer fewer emotional incidents and survive the difficulties of modern life. Below, Frog Reviews and Ramblings shares some strategies for keeping young spirits robust.
Role-Modeling
Imbuing little ones with self-confidence begins with showing them you are unafraid to face a challenge. Speak to them about personal tests you’re struggling to overcome, even mature subjects, in a manner that matches their developmental stages. Explain what gives you the inner strength to push forward regardless of fears.
Your daily approach to life also impacts tender minds. For example, devote effort to personal hygiene. Kids will take note and likely follow suit. Practice kindness wherever you go. When experiencing disagreements or frustrations, respond with wisdom and calm. Show sons and daughters it’s possible to endure adversity and remain an empathetic, respectful world citizen.
Prioritizing
Another behavior worth demonstrating for children is setting priorities. Even when life gets busy, put your relationship with them high on your list. They’ll see it’s possible to keep what truly matters in mind, even when other demands are piling up.
Scheduling helps this happen. Carve out blocks of time for family matters, away from other concerns. Start with recurring events, such as bedtime rituals. Always show up to help with teeth brushing and bedroom cleaning. As a reward, read books to them before declaring lights out. Establishing routines shows consistency and creates the mindset of doing the same.
Next, involve offspring in household chores. Children love feeling that they’re helpful. Assign age-appropriate duties they can call their own. Involve them in meal planning while detailing the importance of good nutrition for keeping minds and bodies strong. Also, explain that occasional indulgences are permissible. Plan baking a sweet dessert together or another sugary event, such as an outing to the local ice cream shop. Setting fun activities and new experiences gives everyone something to anticipate.
Playing
Recreation is vital to building children’s spirits. Help them discover new ways of learning about themselves through exploration and joy. One method is by introducing them to music. Once you’ve sparked an interest in sound, throw a family dance party and show how exercise can be pleasurable.
There are plenty of other forms of aerobic activity you can engage in together. Go for a bike ride or skateboard to the local park. There, you can play a game of Ultimate Frisbee or tag. Challenge one another to see who can do the most jumping jacks or invent an obstacle course. The only limit is your imagination.
Refreshing
After all that movement, everyone’s likely feeling tired. Recharging one’s batteries doesn’t require plopping down in front of the television or iPad. Meditation is another way of clearing one’s head, and there are no commercials. In addition to meditation, some families find that prayer and spending time with God is another wonderful tool for relaxing and recharging their batteries. Turn quieting minds into a family event.
Practicing gratitude is another excellent practice for anyone, regardless of age. As a unit, spend 15 minutes mulling over your most cherished blessings. When time’s up, have each family member share their thoughts. Everyone should leave this session feeling happier and more self-aware.
Everyone experiences struggle, including those at tender ages. As a parent or guardian, you can set kids on a positive path. Assist them in developing tools to endure whatever hardships come their way.
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