5 Heartfelt Valentine’s Day Crafts for Your Loved One

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Valentine’s Day is a special time of year to show love and appreciation to your loved ones. A great way  to do this is by creating handmade gifts that show how much you care. Here are five heartfelt Valentine’s Day crafts that you can make for your special someone.

Handmade Cards

A personalized card is a timeless and simple way to show your love. The easiest thing for a busy mom or grandparent is to stop by your local card section in your favorite store.  However, making something homemade is always more thoughtful.   You can make it simple with construction paper or get a little more creative and use scrapbooking materials. Make sure you have on hand things such as markers, stickers, glue and other supplies that will help you to create a unique and heartfelt card.

Decorated Picture Frames

Give your loved one a special place to display a photo of the two of you with a decorated picture frame. Use paint, glitter, stickers, other decorative elements to make it one-of-a-kind.  There are so many things you can do to create a one of a kind photo frame.

Pressed Flower Art

Create a beautiful piece of art using pressed flowers. You can use the flowers to make a picture or a special message. This is a great way to preserve the memories of a special time.

Love Coupon Book

 Give your special someone a love coupon book filled with thoughtful gestures and activities that you can do together.  A coupon book can be customized for a parent, child or significant other.   This is a fun way to spend quality time together and show how much you care.

Special Photo Album

 In today’s world of digital pictures, photo albums are a forgotten craft.  Create a special photo album filled with pictures of the two of you and special memories. Buy an inexpensive photo album and decorate the outside of it with hearts, etc.  Make it special for your loved one.

These are just a few of the many Valentine’s Day crafts you can make for your loved one. With a little creativity and effort, you can create a gift that will be treasured for years to come. Happy crafting!


Celebrating Valentine’s Day with Teens: Unique Ideas

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Valentine’s Day is a time to show love and appreciation, and it’s a perfect opportunity for teens to get involved in the celebration. Not all teenagers have a special person they are “infatuated” with on this holiday.  Why not gather up your teens and some of their friends and get them involved in some of the great ideas you’ll find listed below! Here are some fun and unique ways to celebrate Valentine’s Day with teens:

DIY Gifts

Encourage teens to get creative and make their own gifts for friends and loved ones. They can make friendship bracelets, homemade candles, or even baked goods. Grab some cookie cutters and your favorite sugar cookie recipe and make some home made goodies.

Adventure Day

Plan an adventurous day out, like a hike, rock climbing, or even a road trip. This is a great way for teens to bond and create new memories together. Even in the coldest of months, you can take a road trip.

Movie Night

 Have a movie night in and watch romantic comedies or heartwarming films. Snacks and cozy blankets are a must!

Volunteer Work

 Teach teens the importance of giving back and encourage them to volunteer at a local organization or event. Have them create some simple necessity bags and take them to a local homeless shelter. This is a great way to show love and kindness on Valentine’s Day

Game Night

Have a game night with friends and play board games, video games, or even a friendly competition of mini-golf or laser tag.

No matter what activity you choose, make sure it’s a fun and meaningful experience for the teens involved.
Happy Valentine’s Day!


Teaching Kids the Importance of Saving: Tips and Strategies

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Saving money is an essential part of growing up, and I think as a grandparent  it is extremely important that we take great care in teaching our grandchildren.   Teaching them to save money at an early age helps them to develop important money management skills.  These skills will help them as they grow into responsible adults.  Sadly, I believe that this is a skill that parents/grandparents tend to assume they will automatically learn in school.  I firmly believe it is something that we need to teach at home!

TEACH THEM YOUNG

I always taught my own children and now my grandchildren the importance of learning to save at an early age.  By teaching them the basics of saving and making smart financial decisions, you can set them up for a lifetime of financial success. The first step in teaching your grandchildren how to create savings is to start early.  When they are really young, and they receive money, such as birthday money or an allowance, encourage them to set aside a portion in a savings account.  

TYPES OF SAVINGS

For our family as the kids got to be teenagers, we taught them several different rules for savings.  You should have an account for emergencies only.   The minimum for that account balance depends on what stage of life they are in.  In their early years (teenage) it is probably fairly minimal.  I always recommend the cost  of a major repair of a vehicle or new tires, etc.  That is assuming they have a car and a job.  If it is the early teenage years, maybe they are just saving for a car.  That is where the next savings account comes in. You should have a savings for whatever special thing you need, want or desire.  Let’s say as a teenager they had bought a car and they wanted a custom stereo system.   I have them sit down and figure out how much they will need for the purchase, how long they are willing to wait to get it and then how much they will need to put away each payday to achieve that goal.  

POWER OF INVESTING

Teaching your grandchildren the basics of saving money can also help them to understand the importance of investing. Explain to them the concept of investing and show them how investing in stocks, bonds, and other investments can help them to grow their money even more quickly over time. This will help them to understand the power of investing and why it is important to save and invest for the future. What better gift can you give your grandchild, other than the gift of investing in themselves!?  There are several great tools online that will help them figure out how they can make their money go to work for them.   I have found an easy to access one , if you click here you can see how this tool can you help you calculate savings. 

Finally, encourage your grandchildren to stay the course and to keep up with their savings and investing habits. Remind them that saving and investing require patience and consistency, and that it may take some time before they start to see results. By teaching them the value of staying disciplined and sticking to their plan, you can help them to develop the financial habits that will serve them for a lifetime. Teaching your grandchildren how to create savings is an important and rewarding task. By helping them to understand the basics of budgeting, saving, and investing, you can set them up for a lifetime of financial success


Raising Teenage Grandchildren: A Guide To Keeping Your Sanity

Raising teenage grandchildren can be a daunting task.  For those of us who have already raised teenagers, it may feel like Déjà vu.  If you haven’t had the joy of raising a teenager yet, be prepared for an eye opening experience!  You may be thinking that you had retired from a life of eye rolling , drama and body odors that can only come from a teenage child. Yet, this time there is a slightly different set of rules. But fear not!  While dealing with teenage grandchildren may seem daunting, you may find that it’s actually quite funny. 

Here are a few tips to help you survive the comedy of errors that is “Raising Teenager Grandchildren”

1. Embrace the embarrassment. There is no doubt you will find yourselves cringing when you witness their fashion choices or the music they are listening to. Don’t take it personally though, just embrace the embarrassment as a funny story to tell to your friends at your next gathering.

2. Get used to sarcasm. Teenagers love to throw around sarcasm, so you’ll need to be prepared to take it in stride. The best way to handle it is to throw a little back. Just make sure you don’t do it in a way that’s too serious—it’s supposed to be a joke, after all.  Of course, there is a big difference between being sarcastic and being disrespectful.  Be certain you don’t allow that line to be crossed.

3. Don’t forget to laugh. It’s easy to get caught up in the serious side of parenting, but don’t forget to take a step back and laugh at the ridiculousness of it all. A sense of humor can go a long way in helping you survive the teenage years.  Teenagers can be a lot of work, just don’t forget to laugh at some of their antics.

4. Take pictures. You’ll want to document all the funny moments for posterity. Whether it’s a funny costume or a silly face your grandkids make, take pictures—you’ll be glad you did later.  Pictures are a wonderful tool for showing them as they grow how goofy and loved they were!

5. Get creative. Raising teenagers can be challenging, so try to get creative with your solutions. A little outside-the-box thinking can help you get through the tough times. 

6. Don’t take everything they say seriously. Teenagers tend to say a lot of outlandish things in an effort to get attention. Try to take it with a grain of salt and don’t take it too personally. I have to admit this is one that I struggle with , but I am a work in progress.

7. Set a reasonable curfew. Everyone needs their own space and teenagers are no different. Setting a reasonable curfew will help keep the peace and give them some much needed alone time.

8. Be aware of their online activities. With the rise of social media, it’s important to be aware of what your teenager is doing online. Make sure you set rules about appropriate behavior and monitor their activity! This is one thing that I am diligent about doing with my 15 & 16 year old granddaughters. Be prepared to be shocked at what they think is funny and/or acceptable.

Raising teenagers can be a trying time for any parent. It’s a time of mood swings, late nights, and lots of “backtalk”. But despite the challenges, there are ways to make it a little less stressful. Here are a few tips to help you survive the teenage years.
At the end of the day, raising teenage grandchildren may be a lot of work, but it can also be a lot of fun. So embrace the comedy of errors, and enjoy the moment while it lasts.


Grandparenting Teenagers: A Laugh-Out-Loud Survival Guide

Raising teenage grandchildren can be a wild ride. One minute they’re sweet and innocent, the next they’re slamming doors and rolling their eyes. But don’t worry, you’re not alone. Here are a few tips for surviving the teenage years with your grandkids:

  • Stock up on snacks. Teenagers are always hungry, and they’ll eat you out of house and home if you’re not careful. Make sure you have a steady supply of chips, cookies, and energy drinks on hand at all times.
  • Learn the art of negotiation. Teenagers are experts at getting what they want, and you’ll need to be too if you want to survive. Try offering them a choice between cleaning their room and being grounded for a week.
  • Get used to the drama. Teenagers are always creating drama, whether it’s over a broken nail or a broken heart. Just remember to stay calm and keep your sense of humor.
  • Be prepared for the unexpected. Teenagers are full of surprises, and you never know what they’re going to do next. One minute they’re loving and affectionate, the next they’re yelling and stomping around. Just roll with the punches and remember that this too shall pass.
  • Remember that you’re the adult. You’re the one with the experience and the wisdom, and you can guide your grandkids through the teenage years with patience and love. So sit back, relax, and enjoy the ride!

In conclusion, Raising teenage grandkids can be a roller coaster ride, but with love, patience and a sense of humor, you’ll all make it through.


How Parents with Disabilities Can Start Their Own Business


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Finding a full-time job when you have a disability can be difficult. Problems abound – like stigmas and a lack of opportunities. Fortunately, people with disabilities tend to be a creative lot and get around the work issue by employing themselves! In fact, persons with disabilities are actually more likely to be self-employed than those with none. 

Launching your own business doesn’t have to be hard. To help you begin the journey to business ownership, FROG Reviews and Ramblings shares the following guidance and considerations as you prepare to take the leap. 

Can You Work From Home? 

Depending on your disability, transportation could be a hassle, and this is often why many individuals with disabilities choose to work from home. Simply outfit a room or dedicate an area as your home office, and appoint it with all the necessary equipment to help you stay productive and focused. 

Come Up With an Idea

To be successful at business, you need a solid idea. It should satisfy a market need and be aligned with your interests and personal skills. Further, it should also be feasible for you financially and in terms of time and effort invested.  

Conduct Market Research

After you’ve brainstormed a few ideas, it’s time for market research. Take a look at how saturated the market is. See how successful comparable businesses are, and ask yourself what it would take to replicate their success – or outdo them.

Consider Your Kids

Running a business is exhausting work. You’ll often be burning the candle at both ends. You’ll have to figure out ways to juggle your family life with work. Set up a co-care schedule with your partner. Rope your friends and family in for help, if they’re willing. Finally, familiarize yourself with the childcare-related resources at your disposal.

Write a Business Plan 

The business plan is a formal document that outlines your business goals, ideas, market research, and finances. It’s a blueprint to build your business to, contains important details, and allows you to set and achieve milestones reliably. It can be hard to create, but it’s more than worth your time.

Choose Your Business Structure 

By default, every self-employed person in the US operates a sole proprietorship. However, this structure puts your personal assets at risk. If you’re sued, your personal assets are considered your business’s assets too. To avoid problems and for an easier time with the paperwork, it may be a good idea to form an LLC instead. Later on, as your business grows, you can move toward incorporation. 

Gather the Seed Capital

You’ll need a steady supply of money to develop and market your idea, and keep your business going for several months. Remember, you won’t typically make profits immediately. Fortunately, there are numerous grants you can apply for to help launch your business, most with few or no strings attached. And you can always get a loan at reduced rates.

Maintain Your Records

Obviously, business owners need to maintain precise records – but that’s not just a concern for tax time. By investing in an easy to use bookkeeping system, you can keep a close eye on your expenses, tell which projects are more profitable than others, and make the necessary adjustments to improve the overall health of your business.

Promote and Sell  

You’re going to have to promote and sell your products and services after launching. Plan out the launch, promotion, and marketing strategies in advance. Set up a professional-grade website and become familiar with SEO. Polish off your business’s site with a great logo design. Prepare an elevator pitch too, since you’ll never know when it will come in handy. Finally, turn to social media marketing to help increase brand awareness and to boost your online presence. If you find that you need more than exposure through social media, consider looking for lead generation opportunities. There are many companies offering this service, and you can use a vetted hiring agency to find the right one. They will post interested companies along with their rates, and you can select options that fit your needs. Contact a few companies to find the right fit for your business and for you.

Learn Continuously 

Being an entrepreneur is donning many hats, from product development to sales and customer care. You need to constantly educate yourself to stay competitive. Sharpening your skills with formal education might be a worthwhile investment. An MBA program in a field like economics, marketing, strategic planning, or research and statistics can equip you with the critical business skills you need to succeed. If you do it online, you can balance work and family while you learn.

Finally, be prepared for ups and downs. Setting up a business is a long-term commitment, and there will be many roadblocks along the way. Don’t make the mistake many entrepreneurs make and quit too early when things get tough. Persevere and your success is assured.

Guest Post by: Sara Bailey; The Widow


Grandparents Raising Teenagers / Update

It has been months since I gave an update on raising our 2 oldest granddaughters.  

I will start with a quick recap of how we got to this point in life.  About 8 years ago, our oldest daughter started her fight with addiction and she brought her girls to live with their Papa and I.  If you would like to know the beginning of that story, I have put a link to that blog post here

It seems as though my  home is full of hormones and teenage drama.  I love having the girls here, but wow!  Teenage girls can really test your patience! 

I am proud to say that their mom is out of jail now and is doing extremely well!  She is a stay at home mom with her 5 year old twins, who have just started kindergarten.  (I can’t believe they are old enough to be in school!)  I can’t help but think back to when the big girls began kindergarten as I watch the twins go through this new stage in life. (the 2 that we are raising)

First let me brag on the big girl’s mom, my oldest daughter.  She has fought through some awful choices due to her mental health issues and addiction over the years.  All of that landed her in jail a couple of short times and then this last time she was there for almost 2 years.  It was extremely hard on the big girls.  They were mad at her and yet still wanted her to be their mom full time.  When she was released she went to live with the twins’ dad.  It was different this time though.  She had truly made a decision when she came home to NEVER go back to that lifestyle and the twin’s dad was very supportive of her.  She chose to be a stay at home mom for several reasons at that point.  You see, as a felon, her choices for employment are very limited.  She was basically forced to work around other felons, ie: other addicts. ( I could write a whole other blog post on that subject alone and I very well may do that at a later date.)

The girl’s mom has been home now for 15 months and has stayed clean and sober.  I am so happy to say that she is now engaged to the twin’s dad!  That wonderful event happened this past summer.  She has spent the last year and half rebuilding her relationship with the big girls.  They go to their mom’s house at least 2 to 3 times a week and spend time with her , their twin siblings and of course mom’s fiance’.  It has been a slow process this past year or so, but they are all in a healthy space now.

Teenage years are the time in your life when you are figuring out how to be a young adult and take on the responsibilities of an adult, while still living at home and having the safety of your parents protection in case you make dumb choices.  The big girls are not only dealing with normal teenage thoughts and feelings, but they also are working through the abandonment issues that come when you have a parent that has fought with addiction issues.   I know that I have read a lot about addiction and the effects it has on families.  I would love to hear some input from any readers/followers that have dealt with addiction themselves or within the family unit!

I often wonder if Papa and I will continue to raise them until they are 18 or if they will be able to go live with their mom full time again.  We have always prayed that would be the end result.  We are currently praying over what the next step is for the girls and their mom. My daughter and I have a great relationship now so I know that she also wants what is best for them in the long run.   

Thank you for taking the time to read an update on raising our granddaughters.  Feel free to give any feedback in the comments section , I love hearing from my followers!!


A Daughter’s Tale

So my middle child had to write a paper about somebody she admired. I am humbled to share with you the article she wrote for her college class. When I read what she wrote, she had me in tears, because she chose to write about me. As a mom, we pray that we have an impact on our children’s lives as they reach adulthood. We pray that we haven’t messed them up, but that we have helped them become responsible , productive adults and then parents. As I read what my daughter had written, I realized that I had made a larger impact on her life that I had ever realized. I pray that you enjoy hearing her heart and her words. I would love to hear feedback from you at the end of this story in the comments section!

My beautiful daughter, Tiffany

The One Who Keeps on Giving

Everyone on planet Earth has someone who gave birth to them, but not everyone has a mom who would walk through literal fire for them. Not every person has a mom who had a horrific upbringing and did everything possible to break every vicious cycle and give their children everything they never had. 

My mom was born in New York. Growing up, unfortunately, wasn’t easy for my mom due to my grandma being schizophrenic and being uncapable of being the type of mother to my mom that all daughters deserve. My mom got married at 16 to her first husband, mainly to get away from her home life. My mother has survived 20 (plus) years of drug addiction (she’s been clean for 26 years now), physical/emotional abuse, and so much more. She had my oldest sister while she was pretty young with her first husband. Sometime after they divorced, she met my dad at the bar she was working at in California. They tried for 12 years to have a baby, and she went through unbearable pain with many miscarriages. Finally, in 1996, I was born! 2 ½ years later, my mom and dad were surprised with my little brother! She knew that raising us properly and giving us a good life wasn’t going to happen in California. So, when I was around 5 years old, she moved me, my 2 siblings and herself to Tennessee. My dad came a couple years later, due to owning his own business. Our first couple years in Tennessee, my mom worked 2-3 jobs to give us what we needed or wanted. Eventually, years later, she got an incredible job with amazing pay and benefits. She had the opportunity to buy the home she was renting, and she made it happen! Now that I’m 25 years old with 3 kids of my own, I appreciate even more every little thing my mother did for us growing up. I would not be in school right now, if not for my mother. I would’ve been homeless a few times over if it wasn’t for my mom. I wouldn’t be half the mother I am today, had my mom not shown me how to properly love and discipline my babies. Even more importantly, she has been an astounding Nana to my 5, 4, and 2-year-old. Anytime we have ever struggled, she has gone above and beyond to make sure my kids and I have had everything we needed, regardless of what it was. 

If I had the opportunity to grant one wish, it would be that everyone could grow up with the support, and unconditional love my mom has given to me my whole life and is now showing my babies as their Nana. I could not be more thankful for the God fearing, strong, beautiful, intelligent, and independent woman that my mother is.